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Parenting Advice: My son has night terrors

By: Dr. Noel Swanson

Q. "My 7-year old son wakes up periodically in the middle of the night. We find him sitting bolt upright, staring straight ahead, and screaming at the top of his lungs. He sounds like he's being viciously attacked. This goes on for a while, during which we try to console him. He goes back to sleep without knowing we were even there. If we decide to awaken him, he appears confused, and doesn't remember his dreams".

A. He can't remember his dream because it wasn't a dream. He was having a night terror.

When we first fall asleep, we enter stage one sleep. We then progress through stages two and three until, after about an hour and a half, we enter our the deepest sleep, stage four. Scientists can recognise these stages by our brain-wave (EEG) patterns.

What is surprising is that we don't dream during the four stages. If someone awakens during them, the most they can say is that they were "thinking".

As the four stages fade, we fall into a totally different sleep mode known as "rapid eye movement" (REM). This is the time in which we dream. If you could watch someone during REM sleep, you'd see their eyes darting from side to side. Throughout the night we go in and out of REM sleep. We usually dream for approximately 45 minutes before returning to non- REM sleep, which lasts for an hour or so, and then back to a REM sleep state. As the night progresses the non-REM stages become lighter. This explains an old saying, "an hour before midnight is worth two after".

Nightmares occur while we are dreaming. They can be as real and as frightening as a Hollywood thriller.

Night terrors, on the other hand, occur in stage four sleep. This is also the stage in which sleepwalking and talking occur. The reason they occur is unknown, and most children grow out of them. They may be worse at times of stress.

Hearing your child screaming in terror is distressing to you and the rest of the family, but luckily your child is in no danger. Your best strategy, if you can handle it, is to just leave him be. You've already said that he goes back to sleep on his own. Use the same methods for sleepwalkers as well. Determine that he isn't in danger of falling downstairs or out a window, or any other harm, and he'll soon return to bed.

Night terrors are common in children aged 3 to 6, and may continue even beyond then. They do not indicate that there is anything seriously wrong with your child. Hard though it may be at the time, the best tactic really is to ignore them, and to try to get some sleep yourself.

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Need some ideas for handling your children's behaviors? Why not take a look at Dr. Noel Swanson's expert parenting tips newsletter. His book, The GOOD CHILD Guide, is also highly recommended. Visit here for more parenting articles.
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